practical skills coaching for adhd humans & THEIR SUPPORTERS

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Funny name...

Serious mission.

We named our company Wagl after the dance honeybees do to tell their hive where to find food. But in our practice, it’s not us doing the waggling, it’s you. We listen and help you articulate your goals — because success is different at every stage of life, and for every person.


From daily life skills and executive functioning challenges, to interpersonal, academic and workplace skills, Wagl's coaches are here to help you find strategies that work for you and your unique brain. 

Our story so far...

In early 2024, Founder Katie Curnutte was desperately looking for support for her daughter with ADHD. Like many pre-teens, her daughter wasn’t super interested in hearing her mom’s advice, so she started looking for coaches.


She'd had great experiences with coaching, both as a former executive at Zillow and as an entrepreneur, and thought that maybe a coach could offer some strategies to make life a little easier. But finding one was an impossible task.


After a fruitless search for a coach in their area with an opening for a new client and experience working with Neurodivergent individuals — and disappointing experiences with coaches in other cities via Zoom — she decided to channel her frustration into motivation by changing the situation for their family and the broader ADHD community on Bainbridge Island.


Katie put out some feelers and connected with Rachel Cahill and Drory Ben-Menachem, two professionals with diverse backgrounds and tons of personal experience with Neurodiversity.


Rachel and Drory immediately resonated with the idea of building a skills coaching practice, and have joined as our founding coaches.


As a corporate leader, service design strategist, and serial mentor, Drory has nearly 30 years of experience leading teams and organizations. He was also the inspiration behind the Wagl name and the architect of our brand aesthetic.


As former teacher and social service worker, Rachel has over 10 years of experience in student guidance, classroom management, and youth advocacy. She also influenced our client-led strategy and connected the dots between the waggle dance of the bees and the neuroscience research that makes it the perfect metaphor for what we do.


Together, they are committed helping people (ages 10+) accomplish their goals with a combination of experience, education and care.


Meet our coaches!

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Drory Ben-Menachem

Born at a very young age, Drory made the PNW his home in 1991, and has served as UX professional and organizational leader at various agencies, high-tech companies, and startups. He joined the practice looking to translate his inherent love for mentoring into a valuable service for his clients and the community.

 

Residing on Bainbridge Island WA, he shares a home with his wife, Marcee, two amazing and hilarious boys, a goofy dog named Wilson, two of the sweetest cats on the planet, one snake, and a baby gecko named Sage.


Sometimes when it rains, he goes outside holding a cocktail umbrella and pretends he's a giant who makes bad decisions. One day, he hopes someone will call him "sir" without adding "you're making a scene".

  • Is coaching right for me (or my child)?

    To understand if coaching is right for you or your child, ask yourself a few questions:  

    • Are you or your child inherently motivated to achieve your goals, and to effect positive change? Coaches can help you define goals, identify and learn strategies, and incorporate them into daily life, but we can’t do it for you. Motivation needs to be intrinsically strong to see success.
    • If you’re a parent thinking about this for your child, are you flexible? Quite often, our goals for our kids aren’t the same ones they have for themselves. And because motivation is so important to success in coaching, it’s important to be flexible. If we can effect positive change in one area, there’s a good chance that the thing that’s important to you will rise to the top for your kid over time. 
  • Is coaching different from therapy?

    Very much so. While we have been trained by a renowned local ND therapist on how to adapt our practice to meet the needs of folks with ADHD, we are not healthcare providers and do not diagnose or treat any mental or physical health conditions.


    But regardless if you have an ADHD diagnosis or not, we can help you recognize your unique traits and strengths, and work with you to adopt new skills and strategies to build on those strengths and fill in gaps.

  • How are your coaches trained?

    Our coaches have been both trained in either life or academic coaching through Coach Training Edu, which is certified by the International Coaching Federation. Additionally, they have received intensive training about ADHD and coaching people with ADHD from Marcee Ben-Menachem, M.Ed, NBCT, LMHCA, a local therapist and co-founder of Neurodiverse Connections. 

    Both also have extensive lived experience with ADHD and neurodiversity in their families (and some also have ADHD themselves).

  • How many sessions will I need, and do you recommend minimum number of sessions?

    That depends on your goals and starting point, but meaningful change won't happen in a single session — developing new skillsets takes time and practice, so the minimum commitment is to ensure you get meaningful value out of the coaching relationship. 


    If the goal has a milestone or deadline (e.g. prepping for a job interview or SBA/finals exams), then we can certainly tailor the coaching journey to align with that but in the spirit of "repetition builds skill" the more time you allow for practice the better your outcome. This is particularly true for our younger clients. 

    This is something we cover in more detail in your complimentary meet-n-greet appointment.

  • Do you take insurance?

    No, but if your insurance covers coaching you can request a superbill at the end of the month that you can submit to your insurance company.

  • Why don't you coach kids younger than 6th graders??

    Seeing results from one-on-one coaching requires a lot of autonomy on behalf of the coachee. They need to have agency over their actions and surroundings, to an extent, to make meaningful changes. We limit one-on-one coaching to ages 16 and up, with some limited exceptions for 14- and 15-year-olds. 

    We address the needs of middle schoolers through executive function groups, which are lower committment and cost, and that help them build community and understanding of ADHD. 

    For younger kids, the best way we can support them is by supporting their parents, so we offer parent connection groups. Check our our workshops + events page for more information.

  • If you're coaching my kid, will I need to attend sessions with them?

    We recommend attending the meet-and-greet appointment with your child, so that everyone's on the same page in terms of what we all want to accomplish together.  Subsequent sessions will be 1:1 between the coach and your child.  We do recommend parent sessions as well, but the frequency and cadence will depend on the age of the child and their goals. 

  • How is in-person coaching better than just using one of those habit coaching or training apps?

    Some folks do very well with a coaching app on their phone or watch, as it aligns well with their natural self-motivation. An app can indeed support both the messaging of the work and the ongoing execution of an established coaching plan, and some have begun experimenting with basic goal-setting frameworks.


    But without human-to-human interaction, much is lost in the coaching journey.  Even the most "AI-enabled" app can't interpret non-verbal cues such as body language or facial expressions, or even understand the nuances of the emotions behind the words.  Nor is it able to use intuition and life experience to "get beyond the ask" of the client and help them identify the real underlying need — and adapt along the way to ensure the coaching journey remains highly relevant and valuable to the client.

Questions + Answers...

CHAMPIONING SAFER SPACES FOR ALL
A safer space is a supportive, non-threatening environment where all participants can feel comfortable to express themselves and share experiences without fear of discrimination or reprisal. Creating a safer space is especially important when dealing with mental health issues, which can be a sensitive area for people and involve deeply personal or traumatic experiences.  We use the word safer to acknowledge that safety is relative — not everyone feels safe under the same conditions. By acknowledging the unique experiences of each individual — be they Neurodivergent, BIPOC, LGBTQIA+ or not — we hope to create as safe a space as possible for everyone.